Because communication is important I write this little post. I should take up the habit of blogging on the regular since I'm very bored and rather alone. Such are the perfect conditions of such things. I find myself missing the best of my friends.
Allow me to clarify. I have a great many acquaintances. I have more than I care to have. I would erase them from the earth if I could. But, to my credit, and yes credit, I have very very few friends. Id bring down mountains for those friends, they are precious and worth far more than their weight in gold or anything else.
I miss a friend of mine. One than has moved away and I haven't seen her for some time. I miss her a great deal.
I miss another friend though, and this one is present and accounted for. I don't miss him per say but I do miss the way that he was. He hasn't changed in personality or in demeanor or in any other way, except that he is far more occupied these days, with someone who i consider to be a large detriment to his person.
To discourse. He and I had a little, and my little I mean large, conversation tonight about this thing that I consider a detriment to him. I call this post discourse and not talk because he says far more with his body than he ever says with his mouth. He is unwilling to cut losses and take home the loss and learn the lesson. He figures the the investment thus far is worth the current disharmony of his life. I am inclined to disagree.
The crux is, I cannot, more accurately should not, urge him to any given action. He must decide what is and what is not to his benefit. I despise my bias.
Bias disrupts discourse, what he needs is clarity and truth.
I will try
Accultus
Have faith
Sunday, July 11, 2010
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